You can never lose love

What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. Helen Keller

There is no limit to love, there is no scarcity of love, the more love you give the that returns to you.

Now that's an easy love spell!

Affirmations are Great Support for Love Spells

To supplement Love Spells you can use affirmations daily to increase the love energy in your life. Here are 10 Tips for Writing an Effective Affirmation - http://www.wikihow.com/Write-an-Effective-Affirmation

The Influence of Love Spells

"When you love you should not say, God is in my heart, but rather, I am in the heart of God. and think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course." Khalil Gibran

The way I view Love Spells is that they are requests for what you want. Where a love spell fails it can often be put down to being too specific in your request. You cannot bend people to love you, you must be living a life of love to attract live. You cannot decide for someone else who to love only for yourself.

Gayuma - WikiPilipinas: Love Potions and Spells

ccording to Filipino folk belief, gayuma is a love potion that is used to attract a mate. The potion's magical property is said to work best when taken by the potential partner, often mixed in a drink. As with any other mystical folk item, the effectiveness of a gayuma only works if the caster believes in its power. The use of gayuma today is usually associated with failed courtship, unrequited love, or secret admiration.

via en.wikipilipinas.org

It is interesting how every culture has it's own version of love spells and love potions. All we want, all we need, is love.

Become a Love Magnet through Valentine's EFT with Brad Yates

via youtube.com

For those of you searching for love this is a great little "easy love spell". For those of you not familiar with the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) then all you have to do is put the video on and follow Brads instructions.

Love will surely follow.
Enjoy, be love and be loved.

Reconciliation - Forgiving Past Actions

There are times in all our lives when we feel regret over a split in a relationship. It may be that we realise our responsibility in the situation or that we choose to forgive the other person. Either way we are releasing ourselves from a cycle of anger and blame. When we do this we fre ourselves up again to love and be loved. Once we are free to love then reconciliation is possible. Whatever we seek in the reconciliation, just an amicable friendship or back to full-on love, it is important to be clear and honest with ourselves from the outset. In many situations like this, where you intend to get your ex back, it is important to seek one or more objective opinions to assist. You may seek to consult a psychic or seek an opinion for Tarot or Runes but whatever way you choose you must do what you can to recognise your own blindspots and expose them. Take time out to consider unconditional love and what it means to you. You will ultimately fail in your reconciliation attempt if you return to it with past baggage or try and impose new rules to protect yourself. It will only work if you open your heart and step into the relationship with a positive attitude then you are much more likely to have long and happy relationship. One way of preparing for a reconciliation is to consider a reconciliation spell. A reconciliation spell heals past wounds between you and prepares you to be open to getting back together. Once you have healed the hurts and start to focus on how great you can make the relationship you will start to notice the coincidences that will lead you back together, if that is your destiny. If the universe has something else in mind then you will need to decide on how long you will wait to get back together before you choose to move on.

Love Altar

Do you pray at the altar of love? Do you really desire love itself or is there something else?

If you want more love in your life create a Love Altar or a Love Shrine, whatever sounds good to you.

First choose the place you want to set up your altar.  There are various ways to do this, Depending on your inclinations you can either:

1. Follow your intuition: Which room feels right for a Love Altar, where would you regularly practice your connection to love?  Is there a particular place in your house where you just fell loved and comfortable?
2. Use divination: There are many forms of divination you can use probably the best would be a pendulum or dowsing rod(s)
3. Utilise Feng Shui: The ancient art of balancing the energies of any given space to assuring the health and good fortune for people inhabiting it.

Once you have chosen a space for your Love Altar then it is beneficial to cleanse the area and create harmonious energies for the altar space.  To cleanse you can use Sage or Sagebrush Smudge (Artemisia).

Gather everything you need for your altar.

• A table or box to be the base (big enough to allow spell casting and to accommodate everything you want to have on it!)
• A cloth that is rich and may be white, pink or red or reflective of love in it's pattern
• Pairs are great if you want to become part of a couple (a pair of candles, a pair of plants, a picture of a couple that inspires you)
• Use incense such as rose, jasmine and vanilla
• Include a pair of similar plants to tend and grow as your love grows
• A blessed and charged Rose Quartz crystal
• A statue or representation of a love God/Goddess such as Venus or Cupid, choose wisely ;)

Place everything according to your preference, you can always change it later.

Create a ceremony to sanctify your altar, use incense and sound to do this and call upon your deity to bless the altar.

Ensure you repeat the ceremony once a month so that your Altar is regularly blessed.  And be sure to connect with love at your Love Altar daily, it's a great place to pray, meditate and cast love spells.

If you want Love Spells to Work then Keep Taking Action

You've just cast your love spell, you have hopes and are quite excited that you might soon meet the love of your life or discover that someone you already know is the one.  What do you do next?

If you sit at home and wait you probably won't be meeting them very soon. Where can you go? What can you do?

First things, first.  Ensure that you are practicing meditation or visualisation, this will facilitate the continued connection with the source of the magick that you have used for your spell.  The reason for doing this is to provide that when the source gives you a nudge, such as an idea to go shopping or to go to a particular park, then you'll know to go there because it's the spell working.

Second things, second.  Actually go there! Make the effort to go out and then once you're there follow your intuition and do what you feel you are drawn to do.  If you're not sure just find a seat or a bench and sit for a while until you are drawn to go to the next place.  Or go to a place you find inspiring wherever you are and lose yourself in that place until you feel the urge to move on.

Third things, third. Smile and keep your head up.  This ensures that your energy is attractive and that should you happen across someone in a similar state you may well connect.  If you are feeling down then you may find that just going to somewhere you love will provide the boost you need to raise your energy level.

Fourth things, fourth. Interact with people, you'll know if you are connecting even if the conversation doesn't flow directly.  Having continued your connection with the source you will will intuitively know in your interactions whether you are connecting.  It may be love at first sight or it may take longer to build the connection.

Anyway, after you've cast your love spell, to help it work you need to take intuition based action and get out there and interact with others.  You might well be advised to do this with a best friend in tow or at least tell someone where you're off to if you are nervous of going out alone.

Inception - Casting a Spell on a Loved One

Spoiler Warning!! If you haven't seen the film Inception and intend to then you may want to read this blog entry later as it contains some content which reveals certain parts of the film's plot.

In Inception there is a basic premiss that it is possible to enter into people's minds through their dreams and that once in there it is possible to access their secrets through influencing them within the dream state.  Taking this a step further the hero Cobb is engaged to plant an idea in someone's head in order to influence their future behaviour.

To me, that is one way to look at casting a love spell.  If you are casting a love spell on a specific person then what you are attempting to do is influence another person's choices by magical or energetic or other worldly means.  You are attempting to plant an idea in their mind that you are hoping will grow into love for you.  Or you may be sending out a more general love spell to attract someone who is soulmate without prescribing a particular person but aiming to create the necessary energy/magic to bring them into your life and allows you to recognise each other.  I strongly believe that the second approach is more likely to bring you success and infinitely more likely to result in long-term happiness and love.

Back to the film (SPOILER ALERT!), in Inception Cobb admits to planting an idea in his wife's head as part of the dream-work they were doing.  His wife was convinced that they should stay in the dream-state and he planted an idea which he hoped would help her to return to the "real" world.  Unfortunately she took this idea, and because of the way she interpreted it, she could not live back in "reality" when they returned.

I believe that trying to influence specific people by way of spells is not the best approach to take and could lead to a similar "misinterpretation" of the spells intention.  If you approach spells from the stance of "I am here, I am open to love and I will accept and embrace my soulmate when the time is right", then I believe that you will truly meet your soulmate.  If you do focus on a specific person as your target for love then you are more likely to experience some sort of rebellion, from them or the universal energy, as you are trying to shape the world around you rather than use the universally available energy to attract your soulmate in whatever form you need to be happy.  I guarantee that the universe, your god/goddess, etc. know better than you who your soulmate is and when you are ready to connect.

Blessings to you on your journey of attraction and discovery.

Have you got space for a love spell?

Are you trying love spells and finding that they are not working for you?

It can be frustrating, can't it?  You set the spell up correctly, you make sure that the time to cast is auspicious and you really feel that you are connecting with your higher power and nothing seems to happen.  There are many reasons why this might be but today I am going to consider one in particular.

You may find that your love spells are not working because you don't have room in your life for another person!

"No! No!" you say, "I want one now!!"

Consider for a moment what choices are you making, or are you prepared to make, to allow room for your soulmate to come into your life?

At the moment maybe you have a great hobby, a wonderful bunch of mates that you go out with loads and you're totally committed to your job.  Oh and you also love a certain soap opera and a comedy series and also like nights in by yourself with a good film.  How much time do you have for your soulmate?

Time for a quick exercise: Go get a piece of ribbon, not your favourite one, as you'll be chopping it up (a piece of string will do or a length of paper).

This piece of ribbon, or similar represents your lifetime, so first you need to decide how long you're going to live.  (Hint: if you pick 100 you may find the next bit easier!.)

Cut off a piece that represents how many years you've already lived (e.g if you're 35 then cut of an amount representing 35% of your length of ribbon).

If you sleep on average 7 hours a day then that's 30% of your day gone so take off another 30% from your ribbon.

If you work 8 hours a day, five days a week, then that's about 20% of each year gone on work until you retire, so remove another chunk that represents your work-time.

The cutting doesn't have to be precise, just as close as you can make it.

Keep going by removing lengths representing hobby time, TV time and anything that take up a decent chunk of time in your normal schedule.  You can leave things like holidays and hobbies that you think you would share with your soulmate on as you plan to spend that time in a quality manner with your soulmate.  What you have left is an approximation of the time you have left from your "hundred years" to spend with your soulmate. If it's tiny compared to the piece of ribbon you started with then you need to consider what you might let go of to create the space you need for your soulmate.  Once you have done this then you will be ready to cast your Love Spells once again and you will find that things will start to happen . . .

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The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.

Helen Keller

Helen Keller was an amazing woman who has spoken many wise words.  The quote above is especially poignant given that she was blind and deaf.  What would be perceived by many as a barrier to living, however, there were no such limitations in Helen's mind or heart and she went on to achieve many great things in her life.

Speaking above about the splendours of life that we can enjoy, she shows that she was able to flourish in this world by having an open heart and welcoming all the experiences she encountered as opportunities to learn and grow.  If we all approached life in this way then we would no doubt find more magic in our lives every day. 

There must have been times when Helen felt fearful, she could not be human without doing so, but she would not have been such an amazing woman if she had given in to those fears.  We can all learn from Helen and address ours fears.  Each step we take in confronting or simply controlling a fear makes us more courageous in every aspect of our life.  That courage is especially important in the area of love, as we all know heart-break is one of the most difficult things to handle.  So to ask for love is to put yourself in a place of vulnerability and to sustain love, unconditional love, especially is to exhibit the greatest courage of all.

I have blogged on courage on My Easy Love Spells feel free to check it out.  If you have any stories of your courage in love I would be delighted to hear them.

In love change is inevitable

As we grow old together, As we change with age, One thing never changes. I always keep falling in love with you.

Karen Clodfelder

To ensure that you and your soulmate "keep falling in love" you need to work some magic and focus your love spells on the continuing flow of love.  Once you are together you need to set up both regular love rituals like a romantic meal once a month and maintain a regular flow of spontaneity and surprises.

Take it in turns to book a restaurant or night out that you will both enjoy and that gives you a chance to talk (a trip to the cinema can limit conversation).

Have a night each once a month (at least) where you agree that you will surprise your soulmate and vice versa.  This could be a sexy night in or a games evening where you play and laugh or going out to dance the night away.

Also, the spontaneous delivery of flowers, small gifts from the heart or selfless displays of unconditional love will help sustain the love that you have found.

The bedroom is the key place in the house to keep the love flowing.  If you are both spiritual set up a love shrine in your bedroom where you have empowering affirmations and love tokens such as a Welsh Love Spoon, or a sculpture of a couple embracing.  You could create a joint Love treasure map that contains images and words that inspire love in you both.   Ensure that the bedroom space is conducive to a harmonious relationship by keeping it clear of clutter and televisions!

Really it is important that you continue to enjoy each others company so that you can grow old together with the love light burning brightly.