Thursday 9 September 2010

Honesty - The key to the door of Love

Each time you are honest and conduct yourself with honesty, a success force will drive you toward greater success. Each time you lie, even with a little white lie, there are strong forces pushing you toward failure.
Joseph Sugarman

To be in a relationship with someone there has to be trust.  Every time you lie to a person you undermine that trust.  Take a day or even a week and notch up how many times you lie, you'll be surprised.  You could even rate the size of the lie and get a total at the end of the day.

Do this exercise a few times and your new awareness of your lie factor will allow you to conscious choose the truth and you will notice an amazing difference in your relationships and yourself.

BEWARE!!!  Telling the truth does not mean thrusting your opinion on someone.  For example just because a meal someone has cooked is not to your taste you do not express your opinion "This is disgusting!" you express your truth "This food is not to my taste.".  If you chose to lie and say you like the food then you will no doubt be getting more of the same in the future ;)

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