Monday 25 October 2010

Ashes and Snow- Feather to Fire

Not a love spell! but beautiful and I just wanted to share it ;D

Monday 18 October 2010

Love - John Lennon

Simply put this is inspirational as a way to connect with love and understand the nature of soulmates.
Enjoy.

Thursday 14 October 2010

Choices - My Soulmate Journey - Part 3

The important thing about choices, well one important thing, is to honour both the choice you have made and the choice that happens by default. It seems to me that it is the default choice that is the hardest to honour. This blog-post looks at the effect that ignoring the default choice had on my soulmate journey.

Friday 8 October 2010

Inception - Casting a Spell on a Loved One

Spoiler Warning!! If you haven't seen the film Inception and intend to then you may want to read this blog entry later as it contains some content which reveals certain parts of the film's plot.

In Inception there is a basic premiss that it is possible to enter into people's minds through their dreams and that once in there it is possible to access their secrets through influencing them within the dream state.  Taking this a step further the hero Cobb is engaged to plant an idea in someone's head in order to influence their future behaviour.

To me, that is one way to look at casting a love spell.  If you are casting a love spell on a specific person then what you are attempting to do is influence another person's choices by magical or energetic or other worldly means.  You are attempting to plant an idea in their mind that you are hoping will grow into love for you.  Or you may be sending out a more general love spell to attract someone who is soulmate without prescribing a particular person but aiming to create the necessary energy/magic to bring them into your life and allows you to recognise each other.  I strongly believe that the second approach is more likely to bring you success and infinitely more likely to result in long-term happiness and love.

Back to the film (SPOILER ALERT!), in Inception Cobb admits to planting an idea in his wife's head as part of the dream-work they were doing.  His wife was convinced that they should stay in the dream-state and he planted an idea which he hoped would help her to return to the "real" world.  Unfortunately she took this idea, and because of the way she interpreted it, she could not live back in "reality" when they returned.

I believe that trying to influence specific people by way of spells is not the best approach to take and could lead to a similar "misinterpretation" of the spells intention.  If you approach spells from the stance of "I am here, I am open to love and I will accept and embrace my soulmate when the time is right", then I believe that you will truly meet your soulmate.  If you do focus on a specific person as your target for love then you are more likely to experience some sort of rebellion, from them or the universal energy, as you are trying to shape the world around you rather than use the universally available energy to attract your soulmate in whatever form you need to be happy.  I guarantee that the universe, your god/goddess, etc. know better than you who your soulmate is and when you are ready to connect.

Blessings to you on your journey of attraction and discovery.

Tuesday 5 October 2010

Connection - My Soulmate Journey - Part 2

My Soulmate Journey continues and shows how our soulmate connection grew and when we the real connection began.

Friday 1 October 2010

Have you got space for a love spell?

Are you trying love spells and finding that they are not working for you?

It can be frustrating, can't it?  You set the spell up correctly, you make sure that the time to cast is auspicious and you really feel that you are connecting with your higher power and nothing seems to happen.  There are many reasons why this might be but today I am going to consider one in particular.

You may find that your love spells are not working because you don't have room in your life for another person!

"No! No!" you say, "I want one now!!"

Consider for a moment what choices are you making, or are you prepared to make, to allow room for your soulmate to come into your life?

At the moment maybe you have a great hobby, a wonderful bunch of mates that you go out with loads and you're totally committed to your job.  Oh and you also love a certain soap opera and a comedy series and also like nights in by yourself with a good film.  How much time do you have for your soulmate?

Time for a quick exercise: Go get a piece of ribbon, not your favourite one, as you'll be chopping it up (a piece of string will do or a length of paper).

This piece of ribbon, or similar represents your lifetime, so first you need to decide how long you're going to live.  (Hint: if you pick 100 you may find the next bit easier!.)

Cut off a piece that represents how many years you've already lived (e.g if you're 35 then cut of an amount representing 35% of your length of ribbon).

If you sleep on average 7 hours a day then that's 30% of your day gone so take off another 30% from your ribbon.

If you work 8 hours a day, five days a week, then that's about 20% of each year gone on work until you retire, so remove another chunk that represents your work-time.

The cutting doesn't have to be precise, just as close as you can make it.

Keep going by removing lengths representing hobby time, TV time and anything that take up a decent chunk of time in your normal schedule.  You can leave things like holidays and hobbies that you think you would share with your soulmate on as you plan to spend that time in a quality manner with your soulmate.  What you have left is an approximation of the time you have left from your "hundred years" to spend with your soulmate. If it's tiny compared to the piece of ribbon you started with then you need to consider what you might let go of to create the space you need for your soulmate.  Once you have done this then you will be ready to cast your Love Spells once again and you will find that things will start to happen . . .