Have you got space for a love spell?

Are you trying love spells and finding that they are not working for you?

It can be frustrating, can't it?  You set the spell up correctly, you make sure that the time to cast is auspicious and you really feel that you are connecting with your higher power and nothing seems to happen.  There are many reasons why this might be but today I am going to consider one in particular.

You may find that your love spells are not working because you don't have room in your life for another person!

"No! No!" you say, "I want one now!!"

Consider for a moment what choices are you making, or are you prepared to make, to allow room for your soulmate to come into your life?

At the moment maybe you have a great hobby, a wonderful bunch of mates that you go out with loads and you're totally committed to your job.  Oh and you also love a certain soap opera and a comedy series and also like nights in by yourself with a good film.  How much time do you have for your soulmate?

Time for a quick exercise: Go get a piece of ribbon, not your favourite one, as you'll be chopping it up (a piece of string will do or a length of paper).

This piece of ribbon, or similar represents your lifetime, so first you need to decide how long you're going to live.  (Hint: if you pick 100 you may find the next bit easier!.)

Cut off a piece that represents how many years you've already lived (e.g if you're 35 then cut of an amount representing 35% of your length of ribbon).

If you sleep on average 7 hours a day then that's 30% of your day gone so take off another 30% from your ribbon.

If you work 8 hours a day, five days a week, then that's about 20% of each year gone on work until you retire, so remove another chunk that represents your work-time.

The cutting doesn't have to be precise, just as close as you can make it.

Keep going by removing lengths representing hobby time, TV time and anything that take up a decent chunk of time in your normal schedule.  You can leave things like holidays and hobbies that you think you would share with your soulmate on as you plan to spend that time in a quality manner with your soulmate.  What you have left is an approximation of the time you have left from your "hundred years" to spend with your soulmate. If it's tiny compared to the piece of ribbon you started with then you need to consider what you might let go of to create the space you need for your soulmate.  Once you have done this then you will be ready to cast your Love Spells once again and you will find that things will start to happen . . .